Wednesday, January 1, 2020

When does it get easier?

As a new mom, I often wondered, when will it get easier?  Translation:  When will life feel a little more like it did before this wonderful little person entered our world?

I found it was a journey- one we are still on of course.  But I thought I would share a few of our milestones as reflection on our Year One story and also an encouragement to other new moms walking this same beautiful sleepy road.

  • When your hormones even out- for me around 6-8 weeks.
  • When your baby starts to smile (around 5 weeks) and coo!!! (around 10 weeks)
  • When you can carry your baby on your hip.  (I don't remember this timeline...but after they can hold their head up.)
  • When you can set them on a blanket for 5 minutes while you make coffee and they are entertained by a book or toy.
  • When their personality shines through and you realize they are a little person!
  • When they can eat puffs and Cherrios! (8 months) This makes going out to eat so much better!
  • When they can eat from your plate!  (9-12 months and counting.)
  • When they start talking/pointing and you understand better what interests them and what they want in the moment.  (Around 11-12 months)
  • When they have a schedule- somewhat.  For us this was all over the place for a long time.  I might have tried to have a routine.....but she wanted to eat about every two hours and naps where random. As her daycare provider says "No-one makes Ellarose take a nap!" But sometime around 6-8 months we got a general schedule of naps and feedings and bedtime.  
  • When bedtime is between 7:30 and 8:00.  (Around 10 months.)  This really helps with chores and also time with your spouse!

For other moms- what milestones made life a little easier and more enjoyable with your sweet little ones?

Happy New Year!


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